The Voice of Reason: Mr. Carl T. Wilkinson


The weirdest thing is that people talk about “coming out” as if it’s this big momentous thing that only happens once while in actual fact it’s something that you do almost every single day every time you talk to a new person every time you’re in a new situation you’re constantly weighing your options, the ability to be your true self vs the advantages of being a false self and honestly it’s so fucking exhausting

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: College Men: Stop Getting Drunk


It’s closely associated with sexual assault. And yet we’re reluctant to tell men to stop doing it.


In one awful high-profile case after another—the U.S. Naval Academy; Steubenville, Ohio; now the allegations in Maryville, Mo.—we read about a young man, sometimes only a boy, who…

The "F" Stands for "Fuck The Patriarchy": Dan Savage and transphobia



I have decided to gather some choice quotes made by Dan Savage. My extensive research consisted of googling “Dan Savage transphobia”.

You might want to stop reading here if you are having a very dysphoric day, or have met your transphobic bullshit…